Planning the burial of a loved one is never easy. While grappling with grief, it can be difficult to focus on and complete menial tasks, let alone put together a funeral. That’s why, as terrifying as it seems, many people invest in burial planning and funeral planning long before the prospect of their passing comes about. If you are helping a family member with burial planning, or are searching for a cemetery for someone who has already passed on, you may be asking, “Should I choose a cemetery near me?”
As trivial as it may seem to some, the location of a person’s burial is one of the most important aspects of their funeral. When choosing a cemetery, it is reasonable to think about how near or far it is, how convenient it is to those who would like to visit, the significance of the location to the deceased and the type of area it is in. A special person’s final resting place is just as significant to those they leave behind, as it is to them.
Sometimes the closest cemetery is not symbolic at all. It may be a little easier for some family and friends to visit, but perhaps the person had wished to be buried in their hometown, or had strong ties to the neighborhood they grew up in. Choosing the cemetery closest to you or the rest of the family may seem like the more convenient option, but sometimes it is not in line with what the deceased would have wanted. Remember to consider elements like sentimental value, cultural requirements (in some cultures, loved ones are buried in their hometown) and more than anything, the right thing to do.
If you’ve considered all that needs to be considered, and you still have your heart set on burying your loved one close by, there are a number of other aspects to consider. You will have to decide if the cemetery is suitable in terms of cost, location (it may be near you, but is the area right for putting your special person to rest?) and even the type of cemetery.
Rules and regulations will also influence your decision. The cemetery may be ideal in terms of location, but its rules may not be consistent with the way you would like to commemorate the person you hold dear. Some cemeteries do not allow certain types of headstones, or place restrictions on how large they can be, while others may not allow decorations to be placed on the headstone or grave. Your choice will strongly be affected by how you may or may not choose to remember someone.
So, while it is comforting to be able to have that special person close to you, convenience is not the be-all and end-all of choosing the perfect place to lay them to rest. There is so much more to consider; and even though it is a difficult decision to make, it is one that should be made with integrity and their best interests at heart.
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